Parashat Bereishit
Exploring the Gifts of Creation
Why
I Choose the Theme of Gratitude from the Torah
I’m
grateful for a new beginning on so many levels. After riding on the waves of
Sukkot we are landing on a fresh new start of the regular year routine. I
treasure the renewed excitement of starting the school year with new students.
On a personal level, my husband and I are regrouping and finding new ways of
filling the gap left by our second and youngest son who recently flew out of
the nest. Ahh a new beginning – offering new possibilities. How motivating to
gaze at a blank new screen contemplating my new blog title, “Gratitude from the
Torah.” I hope and pray that Hashem will enlighten me to find inspiring points
of gratitude to share from each weekly Torah portion. I decided on this theme because
we live in a time of entitlement. We – who grow up spoiled with material
overflow – are raised to believe that we deserve everything we desire, even the
slightest. When we don’t get what we want we become frustrated, upset, and
depressed. I personally know women who broke up families not for any legitimate
reason such as an abusive husband. One such woman chose to become a single
mother of three for no other reason than she found her husband to be boring! We
make our lives miserable with our high expectations and demands. We can live
much more fulfilled lives when we learn to lower our expectations and realize
how everything is a gift. We aren’t the center of the world and others aren’t
created to serve us and fulfill our every whim. Rather, it’s the other way around,
we are created to serve Hashem and His world. Instead of focusing on getting
our own needs met, we can train ourselves to pay attention to how to best serve
others. By focusing on the goodness Hashem perpetually bestows upon us, we will
become more fulfilled and have more to share with the world.
Valuing
the Gift of Light
Let’s
begin with the beginning:
ספר בראשית פרק
א פסוק א בְּרֵאשִׁית
בָּרָא אֱלֹהִים אֵת הַשָּׁמַיִם וְאֵת הָאָרֶץ: (ב) וְהָאָרֶץ הָיְתָה תֹהוּ וָבֹהוּ וְחשֶׁךְ עַל פְּנֵי תְהוֹם וְרוּחַ
אֱלֹהִים מְרַחֶפֶת עַל פְּנֵי הַמָּיִם: (ג) וַיֹּאמֶר אֱלֹהִים יְהִי אוֹר וַיְהִי אוֹר:
“In
the beginning of G-d’s creation of the heavens and the earth. Now the earth was
desolate and void, and darkness was on the face of the deep, and the spirit of G-d
was hovering over the face of the water. And G-d said, ‘Let there be light,’
and there was light.’ Then G-d saw the light that it was good, and G-d
separated between the light and between the darkness (Bereishit 1:1-4).
When
we open our eyes in the morning the light will be noticeable if we are endowed
with the gift of sight. Yet for those who are blind, everything remains in the
dark. Let us keep this in mind when we bless Hashem daily for “opening the eyes
of the blind” in the morning prayers. Before the six days of creation, the
world – actually, there wasn’t yet a world – but whatever existed was a dark,
murky mess. Then Hashem began to make order in the mess by speaking everything
into being step by step. This teaches us that the primordial, ‘natural’ state is
void of light. Hashem created the first light of the world to share His
goodness with us (Ramchal, Derech Hashem). Thus, we can never take any
light for granted whether physical or metaphorical. Any illumination – whether
strong and clear or in the form of the light at the end of the tunnel – is
G-d’s first gift of creation to us.
What
is so Special about Being Created in the Divine Image?
Everything
in creation led up to the creation of humanity and is for our sake. [G-d
created the world] for the sake of the Torah, which is called “the beginning of
His way,” (Mishlei 8:22) and for the sake of Israel, who are called “the
first of His grain.” (Yirmeyahu 2:3); (Rashi, Bereishit 1:1).
Hashem waited till the end to create us human beings, because He had to first ensure
that all our needs would be met. The water, trees, grasses and flowers, the
sun, moon and stars, the birds and the fish, and all of the animals were
created first to ensure the perfect environment and ecosystem suitable for
human life.
ספר בראשית פרק
א פסוק כו וַיֹּאמֶר
אֱלֹהִים נַעֲשֶׂה אָדָם בְּצַלְמֵנוּ כִּדְמוּתֵנוּ וְיִרְדּוּ בִדְגַת הַיָּם
וּבְעוֹף הַשָּׁמַיִם וּבַבְּהֵמָה וּבְכָל הָאָרֶץ וּבְכָל הָרֶמֶשׂ הָרֹמֵשׂ עַל
הָאָרֶץ: ) כז( וַיִּבְרָא אֱלֹהִים אֶת הָאָדָם בְּצַלְמוֹ בְּצֶלֶם אֱלֹהִים
בָּרָא אֹתוֹ זָכָר וּנְקֵבָה בָּרָא אֹתָם:
“Then G-d said, ‘Let us make man in our image, after our
likeness, and they shall rule over the fish of the sea and over the fowl of the
heaven and over the animals and over all the earth and over all the creeping
things that creep upon the earth.’ And G-d created man in His image; in the
image of G-d He created him; male and female He created them” (Bereishit
1:26-27).
The
first thing Hashem granted us is the gift of creation – the gift of life, yet
not just any life like the animals who are also alive, but with the gift of
being created in the image of G-d. What does it mean to be created in the image
of G-d? First of all, it means that in a certain sense, we resemble Him, for we
are the only ones in creation imbued with a divine soul. We can emulate G-d to
impart goodness to others. Therefore, we are special and treasured by Him. and it
follows that if we respect G-d, we must value ourselves as well. In order to be
able to appreciate others we must first learn to appreciate ourselves. Just as
Hashem supervises and benefits His creations, so is our mission in life to
benefit others. We are all seeking to know for what purpose we are placed on
the planet. Instead of focusing on how to get our own needs met – which will
never lead to happiness – let us notice who needs us, and what we can do for
them. This is the personal mission of our life for which
we are created.
Fruitful
Blessings of Increase
ספר בראשית פרק א פסוק כח וַיְבָרֶךְ אֹתָם אֱלֹהִים וַיֹּאמֶר לָהֶם אֱלֹהִים פְּרוּ וּרְבוּ
וּמִלְאוּ אֶת הָאָרֶץ וְכִבְשֻׁהָ וּרְדוּ בִּדְגַת הַיָּם וּבְעוֹף הַשָּׁמַיִם
וּבְכָל חַיָּה הָרֹמֶשֶׂת עַל הָאָרֶץ: (כט) וַיֹּאמֶר
אֱלֹהִים הִנֵּה נָתַתִּי לָכֶם אֶת כָּל עֵשֶׂב זֹרֵעַ זֶרַע אֲשֶׁר עַל פְּנֵי
כָל הָאָרֶץ וְאֶת כָּל הָעֵץ אֲשֶׁר בּוֹ פְרִי עֵץ זֹרֵעַ זָרַע לָכֶם יִהְיֶה
לְאָכְלָה: (ל) וּלְכָל
חַיַּת הָאָרֶץ וּלְכָל עוֹף הַשָּׁמַיִם וּלְכֹל רוֹמֵשׂ עַל הָאָרֶץ אֲשֶׁר בּוֹ
נֶפֶשׁ חַיָּה אֶת כָּל יֶרֶק עֵשֶׂב לְאָכְלָה וַיְהִי כֵן:
“Then G-d blessed them, and G-d said to them, ‘Be
fruitful and multiply and fill the earth and subdue it, and rule over the fish
of the sea and over the fowl of the sky and over all the beasts that tread upon
the earth.’ And G-d said, ‘Behold, I have given you every seed-bearing herb,
which is upon the surface of the entire earth, and every tree that has seed-bearing
fruit; it will be yours for food. And to all the beasts of the earth and to all
the fowl of the heavens, and to everything that moves upon the earth, in which
there is a living spirit, every green herb to eat,’ and it was so” (Bereishit
1:28-30).
No sooner were we created than Hashem blessed us profusely and granted us permission to use the abundance of His creation for
our personal needs. First impressions are important and whenever a word is used
for the first time in the Bible it sets a precedence. The very first blessing in
the Torah is for humanity to be fruitful and multiply. The essence of a
blessing is to increase. The more we notice the blessings of our lives and
express gratitude for them, the more our blessings will increase. The first
interaction Hashem had with us was to bless us. Similarly, rather than being
critical of others, we can bless them and thereby increase their goodness.
Expressing Our Appreciation in Words
ספר בראשית פרק
א פסוק לא וַיַּרְא אֱלֹהִים אֶת כָּל אֲשֶׁר עָשָׂה וְהִנֵּה טוֹב מְאֹד וַיְהִי עֶרֶב
וַיְהִי בֹקֶר יוֹם הַשִּׁשִּׁי:
“Then
G-d saw all that He had made, and behold it was very good, and it was evening,
and it was morning, the sixth day” (Bereishit 1:31).
Throughout
the story of how G-d created the universe, we read seven different times some
variation of, “And G-d saw that it was good.” Why is this repeated so often? Of
course, G-d knows that His creations were good, He created them! This
repetition is to teach us gratitude.
The
continual focus on G-d’s creation being “good” in Bereishit also teaches
us gratitude for the natural order and even for our ability to emulate our
Creator by creating, sharing, and blessing. While it is depressing to always
look for happiness, constantly reflecting on what we are grateful for will generate
perpetual joy. G-d was not just thinking that His creations were good, He
expressed it loud and clear. We can learn from this to express words of
gratitude and declare our thankfulness to anyone and everyone. We mustn’t
underestimate the power of words, after all, G-d created the entire universe
through speech.
Gratitude Focus
for the Week of Parashat Bereishit
- Light – For which points of light in your life can you be grateful?
Notice the light in your life, even if it is
only dim or fading. Treasure the glimpses of light when you sense Hashem’s
presence and supervision and cherish the rays of the sun when they warm and
energize you.
- Being Created in the Image of G-d – For what part of your existence are you
especially thankful?
Meditate on the wonderous creation of humanity and your own creation. Recite the blessing after using the bathroom mindfully paying attention to the meaning of the words. What does this blessing thank G-d for? How does this relate to having been created in G-d’s image? What else does G-d provide us with? Think about how reciting a blessing is like saying thank you to someone you know. Marvel over the privilege of being created in the Image of G-d with a divine soul and the divine potential to impart goodness to others.
- Blessings of Fruitfulness – Search for the fruits of your
life whether you are gifted with physical or spiritual children, or perhaps a
brainchild or more.
Any new invention, idea, insight, or way of
doing something can be called a fruit. Thank yourself and Hashem for empowering
you with your particular fruitfulness.
- “It is not good for the human Being to be alone” (Bereishit
2:20) – For which people in your life are you grateful and what do you
especially appreciate about them?
Notice the good points in others and make a
habit of expressing them often. There are some things that are beneficial to
repeat over and over again.
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