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Returning
the Lost Light
Candles and light have illuminated my
life since I initially embraced Judaism when lighting my first Shabbat Candles
in Jerusalem. I recall the light I discovered then in the rocks and crevices of
Jerusalem’s enchanted Old City, where the voice of Torah and Tefilah permeated
the winding cobbled-stoned steps. Oh, how I yearn for those first years in the
Torah world when my fellow returnees to Judaism and I were glowing with the
light of Torah. It’s comforting to note that for almost 40 years, my life has
been involved with sharing that Torah light. Since Torah is light and a mitzvah
is compared to a candle, it is not hard to understand why lighting candles is
central to Judaism. We light candles every Friday night and for every festival.
Moreover, Chanukah – The Festival of Light – is all about candles. In Kabbalah,
we relate to Hashem as The Ultimate Light – Ohr Ein Sof (the Infinite
Light). “Know that before the emanations emanated, and the creation was
created, a supreme simple light filled all existence. There
was no vacant place, rather all existence was filled with simple Infinite
Light, which had neither beginning nor end…” (Arizal, Etz Chaim 1:2).
When Hashem created the world, He contracted, so to speak, some of His Infinite
Light in order to make room for the world. Yet, He gave us an opportunity to
return this lost light by means of keeping the Torah and the Mitzvot. When we
light candles – especially the mitzvah candles for Shabbat and holidays – we
return sparks of the original Divine light back into the world.
Candles
and Spirituality
I had the merit to study under Nechama
Leibowitz, z”l during the last years of her life. She was a very personable and
informal teacher, insisting on the simple title, Nechama! Those years of
crowding together onto the simple wooden benches of her cramped Jerusalem
apartment, lined with books and folders (gilyonot) were simply
enlightening. For Parashat Tetzaveh, Nechama asked, “Why is the commandment to light the menorah (candelabra) mentioned before all
the vessels of the Mishkan were placed and before the Kehuna (Priesthood) was
given to Aharon? To highlight her question, Nechama enthusiastically added that
igniting the candelabra is the only service in the Mishkan (tabernacle)
mentioned in the Book of Shemot, where the dimensions of the vessels are
described but not their function. The order and details of other service in the
Mishkan is only mentioned in the Book of Vayikra. She answered her own
question with a gleam in her eyes, “Obviously, lighting the candles as a
technical requirement to bring light into the Mishkan will not justify why this
mitzvah is placed out of order. Yet, if you regard kindling the lights according
to their spiritual perspective, then the lighting of the menorah represents the
purpose of the entire service in the Mishkan – which is the elevation of the
soul towards the Divine light by keeping the mitzvot of the Torah. Since
igniting the candelabra infuses the Mishkan with its divine purpose it must be
mentioned before the service of any other vessel. The candle symbolizes words
of Torah illuminating our pathin life while keeping us from stumbling. It
furthermore represents the mitzvot, for whoever performs a mitzvah, sustains
his soul and is considered as if he lit a candle before G-d as it states,
ספר משלי פרק כ
פסוק כז כִּי נֵר הָשֵׁם נִשְׁמַת אָדָם חֹפֵשׂ כָּל חַדְרֵי בָטֶן:
“For Hashem’s candle is the soul of man,
searching all the inward parts” (Mishlei 20:27).
Besides guarding us from stumbling, the main benefit of the candle is for the purification of the soul (Midrash Shemot Rabbah 36:3). Hashem, the Torah, mitzvot, the soul and the Jewish people are all compared to light and are therefore all one. Just as a person’s soul is compared to light, also the Torah is compared to light, “For the mitzvah is a candle and the Torah light…” (Mishlei 6:23). Everyone’s light comes from G-d, “Hashem is my light and my salvation” (Tehillim 27:1). He is specifically the light of Israel, “Arise, shine, for your light has come, and the glory of the Eternal has shone upon you” (Yesha’yahu 60:1). It is Israel’s role to shine this divine light into the world, “Then nations shall go by your light and kings by the brilliance of your shine” (Yesha’yahu 60:3).
The Menorah Correspond to Women’s Wisdom
Besides guarding us from stumbling, the main benefit of the candle is for the purification of the soul (Midrash Shemot Rabbah 36:3). Hashem, the Torah, mitzvot, the soul and the Jewish people are all compared to light and are therefore all one. Just as a person’s soul is compared to light, also the Torah is compared to light, “For the mitzvah is a candle and the Torah light…” (Mishlei 6:23). Everyone’s light comes from G-d, “Hashem is my light and my salvation” (Tehillim 27:1). He is specifically the light of Israel, “Arise, shine, for your light has come, and the glory of the Eternal has shone upon you” (Yesha’yahu 60:1). It is Israel’s role to shine this divine light into the world, “Then nations shall go by your light and kings by the brilliance of your shine” (Yesha’yahu 60:3).
The Menorah Correspond to Women’s Wisdom
ספר שמות
פרק כז
(כ) וְאַתָּה תְּצַוֶּה אֶת בְּנֵי
יִשְׂרָאֵל וְיִקְחוּ אֵלֶיךָ שֶׁמֶן זַיִת זָךְ כָּתִית לַמָּאוֹר לְהַעֲלֹת נֵר
תָּמִיד:
“And you shall command the children of Israel,
and they shall take to you pure olive oil, beaten for lighting, to kindle the
lamps continually” (Shemot 27:20).
The word תְּצַוֶּה /tetzave – ‘command’ has the numerical value of נָשִׁים צִוָּה/nashim tzivah – He commanded women. This alludes to a women’s obligation to light the
Shabbat candles (Ba’al HaTurim, Shemot 27:20). The verse ends with the
words, נֵר תָּמִיד/ner tamid – ‘eternal candle’ which shares the gematria with בְּשַׁבָּת/b’Shabbat – ‘on Shabbat.’ The first word of the verse, וְאַתָּה/v’ata
– ‘and you’ has the same numerical value as בַּיִת/bayit – ‘home.’
Together with נָשִׁים
צִוָּה/nashim tzivah, we get the sentence:
‘women are commanded to light candles in the home for shabbat’ (Rabbi Mordechai
Rosen z”tl). Each of the three main vessels of the Mishkan, correspond to a
particular patriarch and one of the pillars upon which the world is sustained.
The table with its showbread corresponds to Avraham and the bestowal of
kindness. The altar corresponds to worship and Yitzchak. Ya’acov, who
represents Torah, corresponds to the ark with the tablets of the Ten
Commandments. The menorah corresponds both to wisdom and to the holy
matriarchs, as it states, “The wisdom of women built her home…” (Mishlei
14:1). While Sarah was
living, a light burned in
the tent from one
Shabbat eve to the next. When Yitzchak brought
Rivkah into his mother Sarah’s tent (Bereishit
24:67), this divine light returned (Rashi). The connection between women and
candlelight is further highlighted by the fact that the word הַמְּנוֹרָה/HaMenorah has the same
gematria (306) asאִשָּׁה /Isha – ‘woman.’ The
Jewish home is considered a small Mishkan. Just as the Mishkan requires the
four items – ark, altar, table and menorah to make it complete, so too, does a
Jewish home require four corresponding things: Torah, worship, kindness and
wisdom. The first three are brought to the home by the man but the fourth comes
from the woman. Only when all four are present is the Mishkan – built by the
Israelites in the desert – complete. The same goes for the small Mishkan that
the husband and wife build together (Imrei Shaul, Inyanei Shabbat149:19).
Candles
for the Soul of the Departed
During
the year of mourning for my dear father, Shlomo ben Yisrael Leib הכ"מ, I’ve taken on the custom of having a yartzeit candle
perpetually lit for the elevation of his soul. I find great comfort in keeping
this minhag. However, what is the reason for lighting candles on the yahrtzeit
(anniversary of passing), at a shivah house, and even for the entire
first year of mourning? Not only does the candle serve as a remembrance of the
departed soul, but it also fills the dark void after a soul departs from this world.
The memorial candle serves to replenish the light in the world (Responsa BeTzel haChochmah 4:29). In addition, lighting a candle brings joy to the
departed. The soul is made up of divine light, and it naturally delights in
something that is of a similar makeup. This is the case, even though the candle
generates mere physical light, and the soul’s light is spiritual (Rabbi
Bachaya, Shemot 25:31). Lastly, we light a candle to atone for the soul
of the departed. The verse states, “For the lights honor Hashem” (Yeshaya’hu
24:15). When we light candles to honor G d, in the merit of the departed, G-d
promises to forgive and watch over their souls (Rosh, Orchot Chaim, Hilchot
Erev Yom Kippur). The prevalent custom is to light the candle during the first
week of shivah, when the soul is most present (Responsa BeTzel haChochmah 4:29). Since the soul’s ascent is not completed until the
end of the first year, Chabad and others keep the candle lit until the year has
passed. The soul is judged and cleansed during the first
year after its passing. As such, the pleasure derived from the candles is
particularly appreciated (Maavar Yabbok, Sefat Emet 15). During those times when we are to remember the
deceased, we light a candle in memory of the soul. On the yahrtzeit and
when Yizkor is recited, the soul has permission to travel back to this
world, that it left behind.Therefore, we light a candle for its delight and memory (Mateh Efraim, sec. 3). Since the candle represents Hashem,
Torah, mitzvot and the soul, lighting a perpetual candle for my father is
comforting, because it reminds me of the eternity of his divine soul.
Candles, Light and
Eternity
The eternity of candles is reflected by the fact
that from one candle you can kindle 1000 candles without depleting the light of
the original candle. This contrasts with any material good that becomes
diminished when shared with others. Yet, the eternal candles teach us that when
we fulfill a mitzvah even when it involves expense, we never lose out. When
Hashem commanded the Israelites to donate to the Tabernacle, it used the words וְיִקְּחוּ לִי/vayikchu li – ‘take for me.’ Rashbam explains that this
expression only applied to the Tabernacle. Yet, the command to ignite the
candelabra is for all generations. Therefore, it changed the language to use
the unusual expression וְאַתָּה תְּצַוֶּה/V’Ata tetzaveh – ‘And
you are commanded,’ since the language of צַוָּאָה/tzava’ah
– ‘command’ applies to all future generations. The word כָּתִית/katit – ‘beaten’ has
the gematria 830. This comprises the accumulated years of the first temple, which stood for 410 years and the second temple, which
lasted 420 years. Scripture thus alludes to the fact that the menorah will be
lit in the temples which will stand for 830 years. Yet, how can we fulfill the
mitzvah of lighting the menorah after the Temple has been destroyed? Even then,
we continue to light in the synagogues which are called a small sanctuary (Midrash
Hagadol Vayikra 6:3). Moreover, the Shabbat candles that women continually
light, extend the light of the Mishkan into the home, which is also called a
small Temple. Toldot Yitzchak adds that
the two first temples will light for a limited period as it states, כָּתִית לַמָּאור/katit lama’or – ‘beaten for light’ but the third temple,
which will be built in the near future, b”H, will remain forever, as the verse
continues: לְהַעֲלֹת
נֵר תָּמִיד/l’ha’alot ner tamid –
‘to bring up eternal light’ – its light will never be extinguished!
Lovely! And may you be comforted with all the mourners of Zion and Yerushalayim on the loss of your dear father. Also, may the many mitzvot you do, continue to bring an aliyah to your beloved father's shining neshama.
ReplyDeleteAnd what Tziona, B'erot Alumna, wrote is very moving!
ReplyDeleteVery moving. Always appreciate you wisdom.
ReplyDeleteAmen thank you for your kind words and brachot!
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