Showing posts with label Parashat tzav. Show all posts
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Wednesday, April 9, 2025

Parashat Tzav: What is the Connection Between the Eternal Fire and the Land of Israel?

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Parashat Tzav
What is the Connection Between the Eternal Fire and the Land of Israel?


How Can we Keep Our Fire Going While Constantly Breathing Continued Life into Others?

“I don’t know how I can go on anymore – everything is just too much,” cried a student (let’s call her Sarah) at my kitchen table. “I just want a simple life, enjoying the closeness with Hashem experienced here in the Holy Land in peace and quiet,” she continued. “There are so many demands on me – everyone wants my attention, and to engage in deep heart-to-heart conversations with me, it’s just all too much!” Sarah’s words reflected my own feelings of being overwhelmed with demands, dealing with various emergencies, and tedious administrative tasks on top of all the Pesach cleaning. I wish I could just peacefully settle on my land, softly playing my harp, prayerfully tending to the garden, and writing my books without all the interruptions. Sarah’s words, “I need a break; I can’t go on anymore!” couldn’t have reverberated more in my own heart. How can I keep my fire going when I am constantly having to breathe continued life into my institution? How many years have I had to write new rules? Dealing with challenging students and staff, ensuring we have enough money to pay our bills and avoid going into minus, tossing and turning in bed about losing a staff member, and trying to shift staff roles to make sure all the vital chores would be covered? For nearly 30 years, I have nursed and diapered, pulsating my blood, heartbeat, and essential life force to keep everything going. I, like Sarah, longed for peace and quiet to serve Hashem without interruptions. Yet, how do we grow in the Torah way and in our relationship with Hashem? Perhaps our understanding of serving Hashem is topsy-turvy. “What does it really mean to serve Hashem without interruptions for a Jew?” I asked Sarah. “Doesn’t the name Yisrael mean, ‘You have struggled with G-d and with people and you have prevailed’ (Bereishit 32:28)? Don’t we learn from this that it is precisely through the interruptions to our ‘peace and quiet’ that we serve Hashem in the highest way?” So perhaps we need to exchange our mindset – from assuming that the challenging drama with people and with figuring out the way of G-d are interruptions to our Divine service – to realizing that it may be the ‘peace and quiet’ that interrupts our true Divine service of continuous struggle.

The Eternal Fire on the Altar: A Flame Burning in the Soul of Every Jew
Reading the opening in Parashat Tzav describing the eternal flame of the altar encouraged me to keep my own fire burning. It is only when we allow the chametz (ego) of Amalek to inject the poison of doubt into our bloodstream that we feel our strength ebbing out. Our fire will remain steadfast, as long as we keep strengthening our emunah that whatever challenge we are undergoing, it is 100% designated from our Creator to help us grow. There is no greater way of serving Hashem than keeping the fire of emunah going. Perhaps this is why the Torah repeats how the fire on the altar must never be extinguished:

ספר ויקרא פרק ו פסוק ה וְהָאֵשׁ עַל הַמִּזְבֵּחַ תּוּקַד בּוֹ לֹא תִכְבֶּה וּבִעֵר עָלֶיהָ הַכֹּהֵן עֵצִים בַּבֹּקֶר בַּבֹּקֶר וְעָרַךְ עָלֶיהָ הָעֹלָה וְהִקְטִיר עָלֶיהָ חֶלְבֵי הַשְּׁלָמִים: פסוק ו וְאֵשׁ הַמִּזְבֵּחַ תּוּקַד בּוֹ לֹא תִכְבֶּה:
“The fire on the altar shall be kept burning on it; it shall not be extinguished. The kohen shall kindle wood upon it every morning, and upon it, he shall arrange the burnt offering and cause the fats of the peace offerings to go up in smoke upon it. “A continuous fire shall burn upon the altar; it shall not go out” (Vayikra 6:5-6).

The repetition of keeping the fire of the altar burning suggests that this fire did not simply serve to cook the sacrifices offered to Hashem upon the altar. Rather, the eternal burning of the flame was crucial in and of itself, as an independent value, to arouse our internal flame – to keep going against all the odds – and burn away the doubts that weaken our spiritual determination.

A Sacred Tool for Spiritual Endurance

This eternal flame is not merely a technical detail of ritual worship. It symbolizes the ever-present relationship between Israel and Hashem. The fire and flame that must never be extinguished reflect the spark of divine connection that is meant to burn constantly within the heart and soul of every Jew.  The Maggid of Kozhnitz, author of Avodat Yisrael, quotes a teaching from the Siddur haAri, citing a tradition from the prophet Eliyahu, that a spiritual remedy for distracting thoughts, is to recite the verse: אֵשׁ תָּמִיד תּוּקַד עַל הַמִּזְבֵּחַ לֹא תִכְבֶּה/Aish tamid tukad al hamizbeach lo tichbeh – “A constant fire shall burn on the altar; it shall never go out” (Vayikra 6:6). This verse serves as a spiritual tool to remove impure thoughts and ignite inner holiness. The Maggid takes this further, identifying the Yetzer Hara – the evil inclination – as one who schemes “to kill his fellow,” meaning the Yetzer Tov (good inclination), through devious and misleading thoughts. These words seem to speak directly to Sarah and me, reminding us, as Rebbe Nachman is famously known to say: כִּי אֵין שׁוּם יִאוּשׁ בָּעוֹלָם כְּלָל “There is no despair whatsoever in the world” (Likutei Moharan Mahadura Batra 78). When the yetzer hara gets the better of us (G-d forbid), making us feel that we can’t go on, reciting, אֵשׁ תָּמִיד תּוּקַד עַל הַמִּזְבֵּחַ לֹא תִכְבֶּה pulses renewed emunah into our spiritual arteries, strengthening our determination and stamina to keep going – as the old proverb says, “When the going gets tough, the tough gets going!” (Joseph P. Kennedy). The Maggid interprets the verse, “From My altar you shall take him to die” (Shemot 21:14), to mean that by invoking this verse about the eternal flame, we awaken the soul’s passion for holiness and dispel impurity – let me add: the impurity of despair. (Avodat Yisrael, Parashat Mishpatim, v’Chi Yazid Ish al Re’ehu l’hargo b’Ormah etc.). This teaches us that the inner fire of the Jewish soul, sparked by Torah and mitzvot, is deeply connected to the fire on the altar.  The eternal flame thus becomes a metaphor for our spiritual endurance – a fire that must be safeguarded, fed, and kept alive.

Eretz Yisrael – The Only Home for the Eternal Mikdash

The eternal flame, though kindled through divine service everywhere, reaches its full brilliance only in Eretz Yisrael. Although Parashat Tzav takes place during the Israelites’ wilderness period, the mitzvot surrounding the offerings and the constant fire are destined for ultimate fulfillment in the final Beit Hamikdash (Temple). According to Ramban all the details of the Mishkan are essentially a blueprint for the Temple in Jerusalem. Scripture alludes to this when it says, “For I have not dwelt in a house from the day that I brought up the children of Israel out of Egypt, to this day, but have walked in a tent and in a tabernacle. In all places wherein I have walked among all the children of Israel, did I speak a word with any of the tribes of Israel whom I commanded to shepherd My people Israel, saying: ‘Why do you not build for Me a house of cedar?’” (II Shemuel 7:6–7; see Ramban on Bamidbar 16:21). This reveals a deeper truth: the Mishkan was a temporary vessel for the eternal Temple, which could only find permanence in the Land of Israel. The Shechinah accompanied Bnei Yisrael in the desert, but her true home is in the land that Hashem chose. As it states, “For Hashem has chosen Tzion; He has desired it for His dwelling place” (Tehillim 132:13). This makes Eretz Yisrael not only our homeland but also the spiritual address for divine presence, and for the fire that must never go out. Just as the offerings must be brought only in the place that Hashem chooses, so too the ongoing spiritual service of the Jewish people reaches its apex only in the Land of Israel.

The Fire of the Soul – Kindled in the Land

The spiritual air of the Land makes one wise (Babylonian Talmud, Baba Batra 158b). It also deepens our connection to Hashem, heightens our awareness of His presence, and attunes us to the inner fire. Parashat Tzav reminds us that true divine service is not sporadic or seasonal – it is constant. The eternal flame is not just on the altar but within us. The fire that must never go out reflects the spark of divine connection that is meant to burn constantly within the heart of every Jew. That flame finds its fullest expression only in the place where it was divinely kindled – Eretz Yisrael. The Zohar teaches: “A constant fire on the altar – this is the Torah, about which it says: ‘Is not My word like fire?’” (Yirmiyahu 23:29; cited in Rav Tzaddok of Lublin, Pri Tzaddik, Parashat Tzav 4).  The eternal flame on the altar alludes to the inner fire of the Jewish soul – a flame kindled through Torah and mitzvot. Each act of divine service fuels that fire, like a new log placed on the altar of the heart, keeping the inner fire alive and glowing, especially in the sacred atmosphere of Eretz Yisrael. During the ongoing challenges of Israel’s current war, we witness the holiness of the Jewish flame of endurance. It is only through the eternal flame of emunah that our brave soldiers get their strength to keep fighting for everlasting peace. The Shelah HaKadosh writes that although the fire descends from heaven, it is still a mitzvah to bring fire from below. This teaches us that our earthly effort to maintain a spiritual flame invites divine response – our inner fire awakens the heavenly flame (The Shelah Hakodesh, Mesechet Pesachim, Matzah Ashira). Shelah’s message comes to life in the way the IDF and world Jewry are aroused to keep the flame of emunah burning – drawing down the Divine response of protection and miracles as never before.

Returning to the Place of the Flame

Just as the altar’s fire in the Mishkan was a continuation of the fire from Sinai – where the mountain burned with divine presence – so too did this fire descend from heaven and rest specifically on the altar of the Holy Temple in Jerusalem. No other place was worthy of it. In our days, as we continue to yearn for the rebuilding of the Beit Hamikdash, we must remember that the foundation of that eternal house is built by our daily commitment to keep our inner altars alive. Living in Eretz Yisrael, learning her Torah, loving her holiness, and praying for her redemption – these are our logs and oil. The altar fire is not only a divine gift, but also a human calling. The faithfulness of the Temple fire is an invitation: keep your own flame burning. By nurturing the flame of emunah, we can overcome the temptations of despair and despondency. Just as the altar must be stoked daily, so too must we cultivate the fire of faith within us, until our inner flame becomes an everlasting light. In a world that seeks to dim the Jewish flame, the Land of Israel stands as the place where we can keep it burning – with faith, with love, and with tenacity. Just as the fire of the Tabernacle altar was never extinguished, and continued to burn upon the Temple altar, so too will it burn eternally in the final Temple we await. May we soon see the fire return to its rightful place – and may the holy flame within each of us rise up to meet it.

Thursday, March 28, 2024

How Does the Thanksgiving Offering Pertain to our Times?

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Parashat Tzav

How Does the Thanksgiving Offering Pertain to our Times? 



How Could I Prepare for My Husband’s Birthday, Shabbat, and Purim Without My Faithful Kitchen Aid? 

Last week I was busy preparing my husband’s annual decorated birthday cake as well as baking cookies, planning Purim gifts, and making dips and salads for Shabbat. We were looking forward to hosting our newly married son and sweet daughter-in-law together with a married alumna student and her husband. Amid all this, my beloved Kenwood Kitchen Chef – that had been faithful to me since my wedding 43 years ago – finally had its last breakdown. After having been repaired several times both by a professional Kenwood-fix-it-man in Jerusalem and by my handy husband, we all knew that this time it was its last stroke. Oy, what should I do now? How could I manage my multiple chores timely without my special Kenwood mixer and eggbeater? As my husband was on an errand in the nearby Kibbutz K’far Etzion, I quickly called him. “Could you please buy me a new Kenwood in the appliance store?”  I cried.  My husband wasn’t pleased with this extra errand at this time and with the prospect of paying a lot more buying the Kenwood locally, so he responded. “No, sorry these things we need to buy online.”  I knew he was right that it was more expensive to buy locally than online but it was now I needed the Kitchen chef more than ever. I was contemplating what to do and from whom I might be able to borrow, when my husband entered with a huge box! “But you said you weren’t going to buy it now!” I exclaimed jubilantly. “I changed my mind,” said my husband with a kiss. “I love you!” I was overjoyed but there was only one problem: All the metal parts needed to go into the Mikvah before the Kenwood was ready for use. This was not a job I could fit into that hectic Thursday afternoon prior to Purim and Shabbat, and I needed to get going with the baking right away. So, my dear husband who had a busy day behind him and no less of a demanding afternoon ahead agreed to take the Kenwood parts to the mikvah on the spot. Needless to say, I was so grateful. When I told this story to a student, she asked if I recited the blessing “…Shehecheyanu…” usually said over receiving something new such as a new fruit and a new piece of clothing, I responded “No!” I recited a different bracha. 

 

Which Blessing Do You Say on Receiving a New Item that Benefits You and Others? 

The Torah instructs uto recite several blessings and prayers of gratitude for various occasions. The Shehecheyanu blessing –which literally means “that we are alive – is most renownedfor it perfectly sums up the mindset of appreciationIt is a statement of recognizing time and appreciating that we are alive at this moment. This blessing is intended to facilitate us in offering thanks for new and unusual experiences – such as the birth of a child, seeing a friend after a long time, tasting a fruit for the first time in the season, or wearing a new piece of clothing. It is also recited at the beginning of the celebration of many holidays, while lighting the holiday candles, and during Kiddush

 

The Shehecheyanu Blessing

בָּרוּךְ אַתָּה הָשֵׁם אֱ-לֹהֵינוּ מֶלֶךְ הָעוֹלָם, שֶׁהֶחֱיָנוּ וְקִיְּמָנוּ וְהִגִיעָנוּ לַזְּמַן הַזֶּה:

Baruch atah, Hashem Eloheinu, Melech haolam, shehecheyanu, v’kiy’manu, v’higiyanu laz’man hazeh.

Blessed are You, Hashem our G-d, King of the universe, who has kept us alive, sustained us, and brought us to arrive at this moment.

 

The Shehecheyanu is recited upon:

• the performance of a seasonal mitzvah.
• eating a seasonal fruit for the first time that season.
• acquiring an important new garment or other item of significant value.
• even if the item is secondhand, the bracha is still said, providing that it gives you sufficient joy (Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chayim 223:3, 223:6).
• deriving significant benefits from a special event.
· Any new item like a car, furniture, household appliance, etc. which accrues benefit for both yourself and others.
· Upon drinking new wine after having drunk a different type of wine. As long as:
· The new wine is not at all inferior to the original wine (Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chayim 175:2).
· The original wine is not finished (Mishnah Berurah 175:3).

While elucidating all this to my studentI explained, “Nevertheless, I didn’t recite Shehecheyanu for my new Kenwoodbecause Shehecheyanu is said when the benefit of the new item is only for yourself.” (Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chayim 223:3). “Although it is mostly me who will be using this kitchen aid, I plan to utilize it for makingtreats that will benefit many others!” “But then what blessing did you say?” asked my student bewildered. “I recited Hatov v’hametiv!” I replied, Because, the bracha Hatov vhametiv is recited when the item benefits both yourself and others (for example when you are married and purchase a new household appliance) as it states in Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chayim 223:5, with Mishnah Berurah 19. Although this blessing is not as well-known as shehecheyanu it is not less important on the contrary” I added. 

 

The Hatov V’hametiv Blessing

בָּרוּךְ אַתָּה הָשֵׁם אֱ-לֹהֵינוּ מֶלֶךְ הָעוֹלָם, הַטּוֹב וְהַמֵיטִיב:

Baruch atah, Hashem Eloheinu, Melech haolam, ha-tov v’hameytiv.

Blessed are You, Hashem our G-d, King of the universe, who is good and bestows good.

 

Hatov Vhametiv is recited upon:

· At least two people will drink from both wines (Orach Chayim 175:4). 

With the blessing Hatov v’hameitiv we are not only expressing gratitude to G-d for the good we received, but also for the opportunity to emulate G-d by bestowing good towards others. 

 

What is the Substitute for Bringing a Thanksgiving Offering Nowadays? 

ספר ויקרא פרק ז פסוק יא 

וְזֹאת תּוֹרַת זֶבַח הַשְּׁלָמִים אֲשֶׁר יַקְרִיב לַהָשֵׁם: (יב) אִם עַל תּוֹדָה יַקְרִיבֶנּוּ וְהִקְרִיב עַל זֶבַח הַתּוֹדָה חַלּוֹת מַצּוֹת בְּלוּלֹת בַּשֶּׁמֶן וּרְקִיקֵי מַצּוֹת מְשֻׁחִים בַּשָּׁמֶן וְסֹלֶת מֻרְבֶּכֶת חַלֹּת בְּלוּלֹת בַּשָּׁמֶן(יג) עַל חַלֹּת לֶחֶם חָמֵץ יַקְרִיב קָרְבָּנוֹ עַל זֶבַח תּוֹדַת שְׁלָמָיו:

This is the law of the peace offering, which he shall bring to Hashem. If he is bringing it as a thanksgiving offering, he shall offer, along with the thanksgiving offering unleavened loaves mixed with oil, unleavened wafers anointed with oil, and scalded flour mixed with oil. Along with loaves of leavened bread, he shall bring his offering along with his thanksgiving peace offering” (Vayikra 7:11-13).

 

Parashat Tzav includes the instructions for bringing a Korban Todah(the thanksgiving offering)This sacrifice was brought as an offering of gratitude for having traveled overseas; for having traveled through the desert; being released from prisonand healed of an illness (Babylonian Talmud, Berachot 54b)In Temple times, we brought this Korban Todah to show ourappreciation to Gd for saving us from such dangers. Although we haven’t been able to bring the thanksgiving sacrifice for nearly two thousand years, we still practice reciting the Hagomel blessing thanking Hashem for saving us through the abovementioned situationsThis blessing is recited in the synagogue, during the Torah reading, by one who has survived any of the hazardous situations enumerated in the Talmud based on Tehillim 107. I usually make a point of going to the Beit Knesset on the Shabbat following any overseas trip, as even with sophisticated technology – due to hijacking, bloodthirsty, fanatic Muslims – we can never take for granted to return safely from traveling abroadAfter having survived substantial danger wmake this public affirmation of thanks because when we’ve lost nearly everything, we know how much we must be grateful for, and we wish to openly show our appreciation to Hashem for His gifts and miracles.

 

The Hagomel Blessing

בָּרוּךְ אַתָּה הָשֵׁם אֱ-לֹהֵינוּ מֶלֶךְ הָעוֹלָם, הַגּוֹמֵל לְחַיָּבִים טוֹבוֹת שֶׁגְּמָלַנִי כָּל טוֹב:

Baruch atah, Hashem Eloheinu, Melech haolam hagomel l’chayavim tovot shegemalani kol tov.

Blessed are You, Hashem our G-d, King of the universe, who rewards the undeserving with goodness, and who has rewarded me with goodness.

 

The person offering a korban todah would also bring forty loaves of bread to the Temple. Afterwards the meat and bread would be taken home and eaten. The Torah cautions that “It shall be eaten on the day it is offered up; one must not leave any of it over to the next morning (Vayikra 7:15). How could one person, or even his extended family consume such an amount of food in such a short time? They would need to invite their friends and neighbors to join their Thanksgiving meal. Inviting others over to share in your bounty demonstrates the Jewish attitude to gratitude. When we have been personally blessed, we seek to share our blessings with our loved ones, friends, and community. We will rejoice in telling our miracle story of protection from a dangerous situation and rejoicing together with everyone in Gd’s blessings(Rabbi Elisha Greenbaum, Todah, Showing Gratitude).

 

During Temple times the Leviim would play and sing Tehillim 100 to accompany the Korban Todah, which opens with “A song for a thanksgiving offering. Call out to Hashemeveryone on earth (Tehillim 100:1). As our tefilah is instituted in place of the sacrifices, this Tehillim is incorporated into our daily prayer service, and it has become our practice to stand while reciting it. Why does the mizmor begin with our personal gratitude, then go on to say, Call out to Hashem everyone on earth?” Why must the inhabitants of the entire earth join in gratitude? Why does the whole world have to express gratitude because something good happened to one individual? Rav Chaim Kanievsky zt”l answered this question with a story: One day after davening in Bnei Brak, one of the congregants took out a tablecloth and spread it on the table. He then placed cake and whiskey on the table and invited everyone in the synagogue to share in his good fortune. Theday before he had been crossing the highway and was hit by a car. He was thrown into the air and landed on his side, but, other than a few slight bruises and a soiled suit, he was fine. He provided cake and whiskey so that the participants would all have a l’chaim in honor of the miracle he had experienced. The next day, following Shacharit, another shul member took out a small tablecloth, placed it on a table, and proceeded to place cake and whiskey on the table. He invited everyone to share. What happened to you? they asked. “Were you alsohit by a car? No, he answered. Nothing of the sort. It is just that yesterday when I heard that fellow relate how he miraculously escaped serious injury, it dawned on me that I have been crossing that highway for the last 20 years, at the same place  and nothing has ever happened to me! Is that not a miracle? I, therefore, want to thank Hashem publicly for all His graciousness to me!” Rav Chaim explained that Mizmor l’Torah refers to our personal deliverance from ‘what might have been.’ Seeing another person pay gratitude to Hashem should spur us to introspect and realize how much we, too, owe Hashem. True, we may not have experienced any misfortune, but that is a miracle in itself! We cannot take our good fortune for granted. It is all a gift from Above (Rabbi Efrem Goldberg, Bitter Herbs, Grateful People).


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Gratitude Focus for the Week of Parashat Tzav –

Some Tips for How to Allow Others to Give by Receiving

Having been saved from danger is conducive to heartfelt prayer and expressions of gratitude, praising Hashem for the breath of life and acknowledging His role as the Source of all existence. After surviving dangerous situations, we are reminded to acknowledge the continuous flow of blessings bestowed upon us and appreciate the wonders of creation. By expressing gratitude, we shift our focus from personal concerns to the awe-inspiring majesty of Hashem’s creation. Let us take the opportunity at this time to acknowledge and thank Hashem for His boundless blessings and the beauty that surrounds us.
 

  • Recite Nishmat Kol Chai Daily – This prayer has the power to deepen our connection with Hashem and cultivate a constant sense of gratitude. It reflects a deep appreciation for the wonders of creation, from the celestial realms to the intricate workings of nature. Reciting Nishmat Kol Chai allows us to elevate our consciousness and align ourselves with the divine presence. It encourages a mindset of appreciation and humility, recognizing that every breath is a gift from Hashem. We can keep others in mind for a blessing or a healing as well. It is a powerful segula bringing great blessing to anyone who recites it at any time. People in need of a livelihood, marriage, children, health and/or healing, protection from danger, and success in all endeavors can pray for these things while saying Nishmat Kol Chai. By incorporating this prayer into our daily routine, we can give thanks for the miracles and blessings that surround us each day
  • Gather Ten Women to Recite Nishmat Kol Chai Together– Ultimately, Nishmat Kol Chai serves as a powerful tool for spiritual connection and a means to express our gratitude to Hashem. The prayer itself is a heartfelt expression of gratitude and reflects a deep appreciation for the wonders of creation, from the celestial realms to the intricate workings of nature. By publicly thanking Hashem for our personal miracles, we share the awareness of Hashem’s supervision with those present and inspire them to notice the constant miracles Hashem performs for them as well. Any person who facilitates or enables the public to do a mitzvah is doing the meta mitzvah of Zikui HaRabim, (giving merit to the many). Our sages tell us that the blessing that accrues from Zikui HaRabim is immeasurable and continues throughout the generations until eternity for the individual and their descendants. Through the profound words of the Nishmat Kol Chai, we are reminded to pause, reflect, and infuse our lives with a sense of purpose, reverence, and gratitude.
  • Make a Seudat Hodaya – Invite your friends over to celebrate with you how Hashem saved you from imminent danger. When we are saved from danger, we must open ourselves to the message G-d has for us. He did want us saved, but He also wanted us to realize just how precious and precarious life is, and how much we owe our lives to Hashem. Thus, a seudat hoda’ah is as much a time for soul-searching as for celebration – recognizing that G-d does want us to live, but He wants us to live up to the wonderful gift of life He has granted us.
  • Set Aside Money for Tzedakkah (Charity) to Help the Public – If you were saved from possible casualty declare that your tzedakkah should be considered as spending money on a Korban Todah. On every anniversary of your personal miracle find a special setting to thank Hashem, be happy, and tell His praises (Mishna Berura 218:32).