What Does it Mean that Jews are Called “A Stiff-Necked People”?
This week, in Kuzari class, we discussed proof for the authenticity
of the Torah. I asked my students to imagine the possibility that Moshe came to
his people and told them that 500 years ago everyone in the world spoke only
one language – the language of Ever. In one day – when they built the Tower of
Babylon – the whole of humanity became separated into different peoples, each
one with his own individual language. In the same breath, Moshe spoke in detail
about the relationship of each nation with its forefather, whether Shem, Cham,
or Yafet. Would the people, known for being stiff-necked, critical, and
skeptical, accept such revolutionary claims about human history if they had
never heard of them before? I have personally experienced this difference
between Jews and gentiles. For example, when a Jew from a secular home decides
to embrace a Torah-observant lifestyle, they often encounter strong resistance
from family members. Arguments like “Why would G-d care about all these
nitty-gritty details of observance?” or “Why are you regressing to a medieval
lifestyle?” have been hurled at many a
good ba’al teshuva (newcomer to Judaism) by his or her family. In contrast, I
recently interviewed a potential conversion student whose parents, though
atheists with no Jewish background, were willing to support her conversion in
Israel with a $500 monthly stipend. Even after funding her college education,
they wanted to continue supporting her, despite their disagreement with her
religious choice. The following day, when I taught Rambam on Character
Development, Nutrition, and Health, we discussed how the same trait can be
either a gift or a detriment depending on how it is employed. This concept also
applies to the notorious Jewish stiff-necked character trait explicitly
addressed in Parashat Ki Tisa.
Does Being a Stiff-necked People Justify Divine Withdrawal or
Divine Attachment?
Whereas stiff-neckedness is typically seen as a stubborn
flaw, the Eish Kodesh offers a different perspective. Following the sin
of the Golden Calf, Hashem tells Moshe that He will remove His Shechinah
(Divine Presence) from accompanying the Israelites:
ספר שמות פרק לג פסוק ג אֶל אֶרֶץ זָבַת
חָלָב וּדְבָשׁ כִּי לֹא אֶעֱלֶה בְּקִרְבְּךָ כִּי עַם קְשֵׁה עֹרֶף אַתָּה פֶּן אֲכֶלְךָ
בַּדָּרֶךְ:
“[Go ascend] to a land flowing with milk and honey, for I will not
go up in your midst, because you are a stiff-necked people, lest I destroy you
on the way” (Shemot 33:3).
Due to their disobedience and stiff-necked worship of the Golden
calf, Hashem intends to punish them by withdrawing His Presence from them on
their journey to the Promised Land. However, Moshe later uses this same trait
as a justification for Hashem’s continued presence: “Let Hashem go in our
midst, for they are a stiff-necked people” (Shemot 34:9). How can
the same trait justify both divine withdrawal and divine attachment? Hashem
declares that because they are stiff-necked, He will not go with them, yet
Moshe argues that precisely because they are stiff-necked, they deserve His
presence! The answer is that קְשֵׁה עֹרֶף /ke’shei
oref – ‘stiff-necked’ can be one of the greatest virtues. Someone who lacks
this trait is fickle – easily swayed in different directions. At one moment, he
may wish to serve Hashem, and the next moment, he might abandon that
commitment. Such a person cannot withstand tests of faith. By contrast, a stiff-necked
person – stubborn and strong-willed – is resolute and dependable. Once he makes
a firm decision to serve Hashem, we can trust that he remains steadfast when
facing trials. Therefore, Moshe Rabbeinu
argued that being stiff-necked makes the Israelites worthy of Hashem Himself
dwelling among them. However, stubbornness can be
destructive when misused. If directed toward negativity – stubbornly clinging
to bad behaviors and corrupt character traits – becomes a liability (Rabbi
Kalonymus Kalman Shapira, Piaseczner Rebbe, Sefer Eish Kodesh, Parashat
Noach).
Why is Emigrating to Israel Called: “Making Aliyah”?
Parashat Ki Tisa is most often associated with Moshe’s
fervent intercession for the Jewish people for the sin of the Golden Calf. Yet, interwoven within the Parasha are
powerful messages about the holiness of Eretz Yisrael and its role in the
divine covenant, as a conduit for spiritual elevation. The unique bond between
the Land of Israel and the Jewish people reveals how Eretz Yisrael is not just
a physical inheritance but a reflection of divine reality. When a Jew emigrates
to the land of Israel, it’s called to make ‘Aliyah.’ Literally, to ascend. The
source for this expression may be found in Parasha Ki Tisa:
ספר שמות פרק לג פסוק א
עֲלֵה מִזֶּה אַתָּה
וְהָעָם אֲשֶׁר הֶעֱלִיתָ מֵאֶרֶץ מִצְרָיִם אֶל הָאָרֶץ אֲשֶׁר נִשְׁבַּעְתִּי לְאַבְרָהָם
לְיִצְחָק וּלְיַעֲקֹב לֵאמֹר לְזַרְעֲךָ אֶתְּנֶנָּה:
“Go, ascend from here, you and the people you have brought up from
the land of Egypt, to the land that I swore to Avraham, Yitzchak, and Ya’acov,
saying: ‘I will give it to your descendants’” (Shemot 33:1).
Rashi, citing Babylonian Talmud, Zevarim 54b) notes that the
land of Israel is higher than all [other] lands. That is why it says, ‘ascend.’
This concept of ascending to the Land of Israel is not limited to typography. Rather,
it alludes to the spiritual heights that can be attained in the Land of Israel.
The Torah is replete with references to how the Land of Israel is intrinsically
connected to the Shechinah, the Divine Presence. See for example, “You shall
not defile the land where you reside, in which I dwell, for I am the Hashem Who
dwells among the children of Israel (Bamidbar 35:34). Eretz Yisrael’s
very identity is as a dwelling place for Hashem’s Presence. Thus, the absence
of the Shechinah would not simply mean a lessened experience – it would
undermine the very essence of the land. “…This is why Eretz Yisrael is called אֶרֶץ הַחַיִּים – the Land of the
living. One who emigrates to Israel is called an עוֹלֶה/Oleh
– ‘one who ascends,’ and one who leaves the Land is called a יוֹרֵד/Yored – ‘one who descends,’ just
like hell is called She’ol, the underworld, which involves descent (Maharal
of Prague, Be’er HaGola 6:13).
Why Would Sending an Angel to Accompany the Israelites be
Catastrophic?
At first glance, Shemot 33:1 - 4 appears to focus on the punishment
for the Israelites’ sin, depriving them of
direct divine accompaniment. However, we can also read this passage as a
revelation of Eretz Yisrael’s true nature: a land inherently linked with the
Shechinah. The very essence of the Holy Land is G-d’s Presence within her. Hashem’s statement, “I
will not go up in your midst,” (Shemot 33:3) signified a devastating
withdrawal of divine intimacy. The Jewish people mourned not just because of a
punishment but because they understood that entering the land without divine
closeness would be an empty, incomplete experience. The Bat Ayin expands
on this idea, explaining that Eretz Yisrael is the only land where divine
revelation is fully manifest in the physical world. Just as Shabbat is the
spiritual core (nekudah penimit) of the week, so too is Eretz Yisrael
the spiritual core of the world. Within Eretz Yisrael, Jerusalem, the Beit
Hamikdash, and the Kodesh HaKodashim radiate holiness throughout the
land and beyond (Bat Ayin, Parashat Masei). Thus, the land reflects the Shefa
Eloki (divine influx) while this revelation is concealed outside the Land. Moshe
protested against Hashem’s decision because an intermediary (an angel) would imply
a spiritual distance, which is uncharacteristic of the holy Land. “Eretz
Yisrael is beloved, for Hashem chose it. When He created the world, He assigned
each land to an angelic minister, but He reserved the Land of Israel for
Himself…” (Midrash Tanchuma, Parshat Re’eh 8). There are no angelic
intermediaries in the Holy Land. Whereas angels are appointed in charge of Chutz
LaAretz (Outside of Israel), in the Land of Israel only Hashem is in charge
of Eretz Yisrael.
Eretz Yisrael as the Conduit of Redemption
ספר שמות פרק לד פסוק י
וַיֹּאמֶר הִנֵּה
אָנֹכִי כֹּרֵת בְּרִית נֶגֶד כָּל עַמְּךָ… הִנְנִי גֹרֵשׁ
מִפָּנֶיךָ אֶת הָאֱמֹרִי וְהַכְּנַעֲנִי וְהַחִתִּי וְהַפְּרִזִּי וְהַחִוִּי וְהַיְבוּסִי:
“Behold, I will form a covenant in the presence of all your people…
For I will drive out before you the Emorite, the Canaanite, the Hittite, the
Perizzite, the Hivite, and the Jebusite” (Shemot 34:10-11).
This
promise is not just about physical conquest – it reflects a metaphysical
process. According to Lurianic Kabbalah, Yisrael is the epicenter of tikkun
olam (cosmic rectification). The process of elevating divine sparks begins
in the Holy Land (See Arizal, Sha’ar Hamitzvot, Parashat Re’eh). The tikkun
(rectification) of the world begins in the Holy Land. The expulsion of the seven
nations occupying the land is not merely a military event but a necessary step
in preparing the land to be a vessel for divine light. Rav Tzvi Yehuda Kook
emphasized that every war for the land is a phase in Israel’s redemption. Moshe’s
plea for divine presence reminds us that Eretz Yisrael is far more than a
physical inheritance – it is the very place where heaven and earth can meet. As
we navigate our own journey toward spiritual fulfillment, we look to the Land
of Israel as a guiding light, a reminder that our highest purpose is to bring
divine consciousness into the world.