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Sunday, February 23, 2025

Parashat Teruma: How Can We Create a Sacred Space in our Lives and Land?

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Parashat Teruma
How Can We Create a Sacred Space in our Lives and Land?


How did My Childhood Quest for Sacred Space Lead Me to True Holiness?

Since childhood, I have always sought to create sacred spaces around me. As a young girl scout, I would adorn the entrance to our tent with magnificent rocks and other intriguing objects I found in nature. I wasn’t just decorating; I was marking the threshold with beauty and meaning as if to invite a deeper presence into that space. Even then, without fully understanding the concept, I was trying to create a sacred space – infused with intention and reverence. As I grew older, my yearning for sacred space deepened. When I became a teenager, I claimed the basement of our family villa as my own – a privilege I was granted as the eldest of three sisters. With wall hangings, psychedelic colors, crystals, and the ethereal sound of Pink Floyd, I transformed an ordinary upper-middle-class suburban basement into a mystical, kaleidoscopic refuge for spiritual seekers. It was more than a teenage hangout – it became my sanctuary. I created an atmosphere where the mundane dissolved into something transcendent, a space where I could explore my spiritual yearnings. Even as I traveled, whether for a day or longer, I would leave my mark on the spaces I temporarily inhabited. Draping scarves and hanging necklaces – was my attempt to infuse each temporary dwelling with an atmosphere of sacredness, however imperfect. It was the best I could do with my limited understanding of true holiness. Yet, I got a glimpse – perhaps more accurately, a scent – of something deeper. When I visited my grandparents in Israel, I was welcomed by the fragrance of citrus groves, a sacred scent that imprinted itself upon my soul. It was as if my heart was being prepared, softened, and opened to receive something greater. And then, when I stood before the Western Wall for the first time, I knew – without scarves or necklaces or any adornment that this was kedusha – true holiness. My childhood instinct to sanctify space had found its source.

The Eternal Repercussions of the Mitzvah to Create Sacred Space
In Parashat Teruma, Hashem commands the Children of Israel:

ספר שמות פרק כה פסוק ח וְעָשׂוּ לִי מִקְדָּשׁ וְשָׁכַנְתִּי בְּתוֹכָם:
“They shall make for Me a Mikdash (Sanctuary), and I will dwell among them” (Shemot 25:8).

This verse encapsulates a profound spiritual truth – our mission to create sacred spaces where the Shechinah (Divine Presence), can reside. The command to build the Mishkan (Tabernacle) in the wilderness was not merely a physical task; it was a spiritual act – a calling to transform the physical space into a dwelling for the Divine. A fascinating passage from Pesikta Zutarta offers deep insight into our verse attributing the Shechinah dwelling among Israel with eternal significance: This refers to both the present world and the world to come. It refers to the eternal dwelling, for all time. The Holy One, Blessed be He, expresses extraordinary affection for the people of Israel by constricting His Presence within them. Happy is the nation for whom this is true. Happy is the nation that Hashem is his G-d (Pesikta Zutarta, Shemot 25:8). The sanctuary is not only a physical structure in this world but primarily imbues us with a profound and everlasting relationship – our eternal bond with the Divine that transcends into the world to come. Hashem’s special love for Israel is manifested in the choice to have His Presence contained within us, making Israel a vessel for the Divine. While the Mishkan served a critical role in the wilderness as a portable sanctuary – a place where Heaven and Earth converge, and the Israelites could experience the presence of Hashem in their midst – its true fulfillment was always intended to be in the Land of Israel. There, the Beit HaMikdash (Holy Temple) would be built, a permanent home for the Shechinah. The connection between these sacred spaces highlights a deeper truth: our mission to create a sacred space extends beyond the temporary buildings we construct or the lands we inhabit during exile.

What is the Connection Between The Mishkan and the Land of Israel?

The holiness of the Mishkan extends into the Land of Israel by serving as a place of Divine guidance – just as Hashem spoke to Moshe from the Kodesh HaKodashim (Holy of Holies), prophecy flourished only in the Land of Israel. It is the land where the voice of Hashem is most clearly heard. The Beit HaMikdash became the central point from which divine wisdom and guidance were transmitted to the people of Israel. Moreover, the Mishkan was a place of service to Hashem; similarly, the Land of Israel is a place of service, where mitzvot such as terumot, ma’aserot, and shemitah sanctify the very acts of eating, working, and living on the land. The daily lives of the Israelites are infused with sanctity, as the land itself reflects the holiness of the Mishkan. Thus, the portable Mishkan in the desert was only a temporary construction, whereas our permanent sanctuary can exist only in the Holy Land. As Ralbag explains, the ultimate mitzvah of building a Mikdash is not to be carried out in just any location, but in the specific place that Hashem will choose when the people cross the Jordan and settle in the land. The Mishkan in the desert was merely a temporary dwelling, designed to train the Israelites in divine service and prepare them for their inheritance of the land. They did not stray from this path, as they did not have a permanent sanctuary until Hashem revealed to them the location of the eternal Temple on Mount Moriah (Rabbi Levi ben Gershon, Shemot 25:8). The Promised Land is so much more than just a geographical location. Only in the Land of Israel do the spiritual and physical meet in perfect harmony. Just as the Mishkan was fashioned from earthly materials to house the Divine, the Land of Israel is the soil where Hashem’s Presence can take root among His people. The very earth of Israel holds the potential to become a dwelling place for the Divine. This connection reinforces the deep sanctity of both the Mishkan and the Land, highlighting that Israel is not only a place for the Jewish people to live but the place where Hashem’s glory is to be revealed (Based on Yoel Yakoby, Parashat Teruma: The Encounter Between Two Types of Sanctity).

To Build or Not to Build the Beit Hamikdash?

We all pray and yearn for the rebuilding of the permanent Beit HaMikdash on the Temple Mount. But why don’t we begin the construction already? One reason often cited is the belief that the Temple is meant to descend from Heaven. However, this view is not as clear-cut as it may seem. It is based on one interpretation of Rashi’s commentary on the Babylonian Talmud (Sukkah 41a). Yet that interpretation of Rashi is disputed among our Sages (see, for example, the Me’iri on that Talmudic passage). Rabbi Jacob Ettlinger succinctly reconciles these differing perspectives: “Certainly, the future Beit HaMikdash will be built literally by humans. That which is written, ‘The Mikdash, Hashem, Your hands established’ (Shemot 15:17), as expounded in the Midrash Tanchuma – that it will descend from above—refers to the spiritual Beit HaMikdash, which will enter the physical, already-built Beit HaMikdash, like a soul within a body” (Aruch LaNer on Sukkah 41a). Another widely held assumption is that the mitzvah of building the Beit HaMikdash is contingent on the majority of Am Yisrael (Jewish People) residing in Eretz Yisrael. Yet this claim is also unclear. In contrast, the Minchat Chinuch asserts: “Even today, it is possible that if the nations were to grant permission to build the Beit HaMikdash, there would be a mitzvah to do so, as is evident from the Midrash, which recounts that in the days of Rabbi Yehoshua ben Chananya, permission was granted, and they began construction” (Minchat Chinuch, Mitzvah 95). Similarly, Rav Teichtal states that the Beit HaMikdash can be built whenever the opportunity presents itself: “If permission were given to Am Yisrael to build the Beit HaBechirah (Chosen House). …it is a mitzvah for all generations, as we are commanded to build the Beit HaMikdash. Therefore, Chazal said, ‘A generation in which the Beit HaMikdash is not built in its time is as if it were destroyed in its time.’ (Em Habanim Semecha). The reason is that whenever Bnei Yisrael contribute wholeheartedly, yearning to build Him a house, they will be able to attain their aspirations” (Sefat Emet, Parashat Teruma, Year 1850). Based on these authoritative Torah scholars, I venture to ask: So what are we waiting for?!

How Can We Bring the Mishkan into Our Lives Today?

Although our final Beit HaMikdash has not yet been rebuilt, the message of Parashat Teruma remains deeply relevant. Every home in the Land of Israel – and every Jewish heart –  can serve as a mini-Mikdash. By filling our lives with Torah, kindness, and devotion to Hashem, we continue the legacy of Parashat Teruma, creating a space where the Divine Presence can dwell.
The connection between creating sacred space and our role as partners with Hashem in building a dwelling place for the Shechinah is profound. The Land itself is holy, as it is the place where the Shechinah dwells most intimately. Every act of sanctifying the space around us – whether through physical action or spiritual devotion—brings us closer to fulfilling the mitzvah of Parashat Teruma: “They shall make for Me a Sanctuary, and I will dwell among them.” This call is not just for the Israelites of the past but for us today, as we continue to build sacred spaces where the Divine can reside among us. May we merit seeing the rebuilding of the Beit HaMikdash speedily in our days, when its holiness will once again shine in its full glory. The lesson of creating sacred spaces – whether in our homes, our communities, or our land – continues to guide us toward a deeper connection with Hashem, inviting His Presence to dwell among us. Just as I instinctively sought to transform my surroundings into sacred spaces, the Torah calls on all of us to recognize that every space, every moment, and every act can become an opportunity to invite holiness into our lives. The Land of Israel, in particular, is where this sacred work is most fully realized. It is not merely a home for the Jewish people but the very foundation of our relationship with Hashem.

Wednesday, October 25, 2023

Elevation Through Hardships and Lowliness

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Parashat Lech Lecha

Elevation Through Hardships and Lowliness

Fixing the Feature of Going Forward from Strength to Strength
I’m so elated and thankful for how our holy people in Israel respond to crises and hardships. The polarization and tension between the opposing camps had been unbearable.  It was escalating to the degree that I was concerned that it would end in civil war, G-d forbidHashem returned unity to our people by bringing us together to fight our mutual enemy. We all wish we wouldn’t need this war to bring our holy people together and reignite our love of the land of Israel. This love, devotionand emunah that has been sparked by our current state of war is a spiritual inheritance from Avraham our Father, more specifically from his response to his first mitzvah. 

ספר בראשית פרק יב פסוק א וַיֹּאמֶר הָשֵׁם אֶל אַבְרָם לֶךְ לְךָ מֵאַרְצְךָ וּמִמּוֹלַדְתְּךָ וּמִבֵּית אָבִיךָ אֶל הָאָרֶץ אֲשֶׁר אַרְאֶךָּ:
“Hashem said to Abram, ‘Go forth from your land and from your birthplace and from your father’s house to the land that I will show you’” (Bereishit 12:1).

Since Hashem charged Avraham to go from his land, birthplace, and the house of his father, we are called upon to keep walking in his footstepsRav Tzaddok of Lublin asks why it states לֶךְ לְךָ/lech lecha – go from your land? The word לֶךְ/lech in Hebrew means to go toward a place or goal, whereas the Hebrew word צֵא/tze – ‘leave’ is used to indicate going from a place. Didn’t Avraham need to go out and leave his environment completely before he could go toward the Holy Land?  It should therefore have rather stated, צֵא מֵאַרְצֵךְ go out from (leave) your land, your birthplace, and your father’s house,’ and only then לֶךְ אֶל הָאָרֶץ אֲשֶׁר אַרְאֶךָּ – go to the land I will show you. Rav Tzaddok answers his question by sharing a deep concept from the Zohar regarding going forward and elevating ourselves specifically through hardships. Avraham was commanded to rectify the level of going. Although Terach was an idol-worshipper of the highest caliber, Avraham was commanded to distance himself and detach completely from him both spiritually and physically as well as from everything else in his environment. He had the ability to go forward with an even greater strength not despitebut explicitly because of his lowly background (Pri TzaddikParashat Lech Lecha 1). Like Avraham, our Father, the darkness of the current murderous attacks is propelling Am Yisrael (the people of Israel) to go forward both physically and spiritually from strength to strength.

 

Darkness serves as a springboard to Propel Us to our Higher Selves

I have treated many women for traumas and childhood wounds and helped them realize how their hardships brought them to become the refined compassionate women they are today. We are now witnessing how the Jewish people in the entire Land of Israel and abroad are transforming our pain and fright into prayer and spiritual growth. No matter how much throbbing pain and fear we experience, this place of darkness serves as a springboard to go forward and propel ourselves to our elevated higher selves. The more a rubber band is pulled back the higher it will fly when it is finally released, as we learn from Yosef, who rose straight from prison to become second in charge to Pharaoh. Rav Shlomo Carlebach tells the following story, which illustrates how it is our lowliness that brings us to the highest place. During the Levanon war, Rav Shlomo went to give chizuk (spiritually strengthen) to the soldiers. When he approached the military Rabbi, he told him that the food was kosher. Rav Shlomo replied, “I didn’t come here to eat, neither did the soldiers. I am asking you how the souls of the soldiers are doing. Are you learning Torah with them? No, said the Rav, they are not interested. Rav Shlomo told him, “If I ask the soldier furthest away from Torah to learn with me Orot Hakodesh of Rav Kook, I bet he will be interested. So, Rav Shlomo took a soldier aside who clearly looked like someone who would eat Chametz on Pesach and pork on Yom Kippur. Yet, Rav Shlomo understood that this guy was willing to die for the sake of the Holy Land, he was not a simple guy. Rav Shlomo had learned Orot Hakodesh with many people beforehand, but never with a person who mamash cried, not only at every word but at every letter of Orot HakodeshI’m grateful to our neighbors and friends with whom we share so much love and prayer at this time. Our hearts have been opened to feel so much more kinship and love for everyone we know as well as for those we don’t know personally. The burdensome tension and accusations between fellow Jews have been exchanged with kindness and sisterhood. My heart is filled with love, admiration, and gratitude to my students who are remaining faithful to the Land of Israel and to their soldier duty to learn Torah even more fervently than ever before!

 

Leaving Behind our Blocking Impurities by Going Forward Toward Pure Holiness

Although the low place that we came from can help us achieve even greater heights, we still do need to detach ourselves from whatever impurities we originated to move forward, climbing the highest Torah path. In Egypt when we became a people by receiving our first collective mitzvah, Hashem took us out of the fifty gates of impurity and brought us to the fifty gates of understanding. The Exodus was only possible due to Avraham paving the way. “The deeds of our Patriarchs (and Matriarchs) are the signs for the children.” Prior to the Exodus, Avraham was commanded to detach himself from the fifty gates of impurity and go forward to the fifty gates of understanding, through his first mitzvah ofלֶךְ לְךָ/lech lechaThis is alluded to in the numerical value of לֶךְ לְךָ/lech lecha. These words have the gematria of 50 + 50 teaching all of us to go toward the fifty gates of purity and to leave the fifty gates of impurity behindThrough Avraham’s going forward toward Hashem’s command, he was able to remove himself from his past as it states

ספר בראשית פרק יב פסוק ד

וַיֵּלֶךְ אַבְרָם כַּאֲשֶׁר דִּבֶּר אֵלָיו הָשֵׁם וַיֵּלֶךְ אִתּוֹ לוֹט וְאַבְרָם בֶּן חָמֵשׁ שָׁנִים וְשִׁבְעִים שָׁנָה בְּצֵאתוֹ מֵחָרָן:

“So Avram went, as the Eternal had spoken to him; and Lot went with him: and Avram was 75 years old when he went out from Haran” (Bereishit 12:4).

 

What is the Great Merit of the Politically Incorrect Term Obedience?

The uniqueness of Avraham is not his profound realization of the One G-d in his mind, but his profound responsibility to the Living G-d in action. The first greatness ascribed to Avraham, our Father in the Torah is: “Avraham went as Hashem told him. The Torah’s evasion of Avraham’s past clearly indicates that his chosen-ness was not based on his past. The reason for his selection is specifically Avraham’s readiness to be a soldier of Hashem obeying his very first command to detach from his past and go to an unknown future in the land of Israel. It is not the Avraham of the past who is chosen, but the Avraham of the present and the future, who in saying, “yes” as he transforms himself into the ‘chosen.’ Avraham chose to obey Hashem and be in a relationship with him. His going out (צֵא/tze) could only take place after his going forward לֶךְ/lech. The way of the Torah is always to continue to be in לֶךְ לְךָ/lech lecha – “Go to yourself” – ‘go to your higher self and activate the divine spark of your soul. In the Torah world, we talk about being on or off the דֶרֶך/derech – ‘path. Keeping the Torah laws is called הֲלָכָה/halacha – going. The power of the mitzvot is to keep us going on the path of truth. The word mitzvah comes from the Hebrew word צַוְתָּא/tzavta, meaning to connect or be with, in a צֶוֶת/tzevet – ‘team. Through walking in the way of the mitzvot we connect to Hashem in the deepest wayThe mitzvot we take on becomes our garment replacing the impurity of our past. The success of war depends on the unity of the soldiers, which requires perfectly obeying their commandsThe action of soldering different parts together requires first smoothing out the sharp edges. Similarly, in the process of uniting to become one we need to remove the sharp edges of our ego that prevent us from obeying Hashem’s command. Avraham’s lech lechanot only empowered his descendants to go out of their Egyptian enslavement in the past, but he continues to empower us to leave our exile mentality behind and jointly go forward toward the final geulah (redemption). 

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Gratitude Focus for the Week of Parashat Lech Lecha

        

     • Letting go – Leave the Pain of the Past Behind – Past traumas and childhood wounds have         the ability to propel you forward to your higher selves.  Visualize the energy of your trauma         as leaving your body. 
Grounding – Find a relaxing, safe place, sit comfortably, and take several deep breaths. Bring your attention to your body, tense and release your muscles, and allow yourself to feel connected to the ground beneath you. Imagine energy flowing from your tailbone to the center of the earth.
• Recalling – Think of a situation that has upset you recently. Revisit the sequence of events in detail and envision yourself back in this time and place. Imagine this experience with your senses.
• Sensing – Scan your body for sensations, and curiously observe each of these physical reactions. Silently describe them to yourself.
• Naming – Connect your sensations to emotions. It may be helpful to view a list of emotions before this step.
• Accepting and Loving – Accept your feelings. Repeat, “I love myself for feeling _______.”
• Feeling – Allow your feelings to come and go. Observe and acknowledge them and express your emotions constructively.
• Receiving Wisdom – Connect your current emotions with past experiences. Do they provide insight? Ask yourself, “What is this sensation or emotion saying to me?” Which points of light surface through my darkness? 
• Thanking – Thank Hashem for the good points within your pain, realizing how whatever hardships you have been going through are refining you to become the compassionate caring person you are today. 
• Directing your Acceptance of Past Pains into Personal Prayer – Gratitude is the most important element of personal prayer. The yetzer hara incites us to cut our expressions of gratitude short and to focus on praying for release from our problems. Expressions of gratitude can be more conducive to arousing Divine compassion than tears because focusing on our troubles is spurred by gratitude.
• Prayer of Gratitude – Ask Hashem to help us understand how everything in our life is for the very best and to thank Him for it. Begin with the fixed blessings in our lives such as our parents, our spouses, and our children. Take nothing for granted and don’t forget to thank Hashem for your lungs and the air you breathe. Afterward, you can thank Hashem for the particular blessings of the past 24 hours.
• Thanking Hashem for your Mistakes, Setbacks, and Hardships – Only after being in darkness can we appreciate the light. “Master of the World, beloved Father in Heaven, thank You for Your wonderful and personal intervention in my life. Thank You for showing me my shortcomings by letting me make mistakes. Thank You for arousing me to make a greater effort to get close to You. I wouldn’t have made this effort if I hadn’t experienced the setback. Thank You for my periodic difficulties, my occasional setbacks, and for the times when I don’t feel happy, because everything is for my ultimate benefit, even if I don’t see that it’s always for my best. Thank You for the times of hardships because they enable me to fully appreciate the good times.
• Gratitude for Being Able to Keep Hashem’s Mitzvot –Thank You for giving me the strength to observe Your mitzvot, to do good deeds, and to pray. Empower me with humility to always obey you even when I don’t understand the reason for Your mitzvah. Thank You for all the times You helped me, and I didn’t know how to say, “Thank You.” (Credit of https://breslev.com/424271/).