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Wednesday, August 28, 2024

Parashat Re’eh: How Can We Learn from the Animals to Praise Hashem?

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Parashat Re’eh
How Can We Learn from the Animals to Praise Hashem?  




Is it Halachically Permitted to Visit the Zoo? 

Every year during the latter part of August you’ll see middle-aged and older couples pushing baby carriages and tightly holding the hands of bouncy toddlers while crossing the street. They will be hanging out at various parks and playgrounds struggling to handle girls with piggy tails in matching dresses, and boys of varying heights. You will meet them in the children’s museums, at amusement parks, the aquarium, and the Zoo. That’s where you could have met us last week with our feisty four-year-old granddaughter in tow. In Israel, nursery and elementary school go to the end of June, when working parents can find various summer camps that last until mid-August. During the last two weeks of August, until school starts in September, parents often turn to their parents for help taking care of their children. We, the grandparents, treasure this opportunity to spend meaningful time with our grandchildren while helping relieve our busy children. When I suggested visiting The Biblical Zoo, my husband was immediately on board. This will afford us the opportunity to recite the special lesser-known bracha, praising Hashem for creating strange and different creatures twice, once for the monkeys and once for the elephants.  While there may be a slight controversy about going to a zoo, most Halachic authorities approve. The reason that a few Rabbis oppose visiting the zoo is that capturing and confining an animal can be considered a form of prohibited tza’ar ba’alei chayim, (causing pain to animals), especially to undomesticated animals that resist captivity. Yet most halachic authorities permit going to the zoo. They cite several well-known Rabbis who visited the Zoo to recite the appropriate bracha.  Even according to the view that it is prohibited to build a zoo, once a zoo exists, it may be permitted to visit it (Rabbi Simon Jacobson). Rabbi Ovadia Yosef zt”l rules that one may visit a zoo to see Hashem’s wonderous creations and recite the appropriate blessings upon them. It is said that the Terumat Ha’Deshen went to the zoo because he had never seen a lion. The Chida writes about his visits to several Zoos where he saw various interesting, confined animals, among them a beautiful one-hundred-year-old eagle (Midbar Kedemot, Letter Bet, and Ma’agal Tov). The Gaon of Muncasz writes: “I visited the zoo where I saw elephants, monkeys, snakes, alligators, and all sorts of astounding creatures. How great are Hashem’s creations! I recited the ‘Baruch Meshane Ha’Briyot’ blessing. 


Praising Hashem for Creating Creatures that are Different

Rabbi Avraham Lipshitz asks, was it not permitted to go to the zoo, how would we ever recite the blessing Meshaneh Ha’Briyot? He clarifies we aren’t obligated to go to the zoo to recite this blessing. Nevertheless, it is definitely a mitzvah to praise Hashem for His multifaceted creations. Thus, we trotted around in the zoo, trying to get our granddaughter to follow us – a challenge that would have been quite difficult if not for the help of our younger son and his wife who accompanied us. We noticed that most of the other zoo visitors were visibly Torah observant. When we finally arrived at the monkeys, we excitedly recited the bracha:

בָּרוּךְ אַתָּה הָשֵׁם אֱלֹהֵינוּ מֶלֶךְ הָעוֹלָם מְשַנֶּה הַבְּרִיּוֹת:

Baruch Atah Hashem, E-lo-h-einu Melech ha’olam meshane ha’briyot.

Blessed are you Hashem our G-d who makes creatures different. 


There are various Rabbinic opinions on whether we are permitted to say this blessing both on the monkey and the elephant, we followed the ruling of Rav Melamed who writes: “A person who sees a monkey and an elephant together, recites one blessing over both. However, when they are in different locations, as is common in zoos, we recite a separate blessing over each one.” So, we had more praise for Hashem in store when we finally arrived at the elephants.  There are also various views on whether the ‘Meshane Ha’Briyot’ blessing may only be said once in a lifetime or if we may recite this blessing every time, we see elephants and monkeys Rav Ovadia Yosef rules that we should only recite this blessing once a lifetime. The next time we see an elephant or monkey, we should only recite this blessing in our minds because of the doubt involved. Another option given is to recite the Bracha without Shem UMalchut if 30 days have passed. According to Rav Melamed, if thirty days have passed since we last praised Hashem for the monkey or elephant, we do recite the blessing again because when visiting a zoo, there is definitely a sense of amazement – the fact that people go there specifically to see the animals demonstrates their wonder at seeing them. Yet, if we have already visited the zoo within the last month, we do not recite the blessing over animals as when thirty days have not passed, our amazement at seeing them is diminished (P’ninei Halakha, Brachot 15:15). 


What’s Different About Monkeys and Elephants? 

תלמוד בבלי מסכת ברכות דף נח/ב  תנו רבנן הרואה פיל קוף וקפוף אומר ברוך משנה את הבריות… 

“One who sees an elephant, a monkey, or a Kipof recites ‘Meshane Ha’Briyot’ (He Who makes creatures different)” (Babylonian Talmud, Berachot 58b; Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chayim 225:8).


Since there are many species around the world with stark distinctions and unique features, why did the Sages specifically enact to recite blessings upon seeing these animals only? Our Sages decided to recite a blessing specifically on monkeys and elephants because their appearance arouses particular astonishment. More than any other creature, they possess a certain resemblance to humans. A monkey is similar to man in the shape of its body and the use of its hands. An elephant is unique among animals in that its skin is smooth and hairless, and it uses its trunk like a hand (Meiri, Berachot 58b). Rav Ovadia Yosef testifies that he heard from the great and pious kabbalist, Rabbi Meshulam, that Hashem punished the people of the Generation of the Dispersion by turning some of them into elephants and monkeys. Thus, since primates have some human features and elephants understand human language somewhat, we recite this blessing” (Based on the Babylonian Talmud, Sanhedrin 109a).


How does the Owl Differ from the Rest of the 24 non-Kosher Birds?

As we proceeded inside a dark zoo tunnel several pairs of big round eyes met ours.  I’ve always been a bird lover, but my husband didn’t tell us to recite the special blessing on the קפוף/kipof  –‘owl,’ (the third animal mentioned in Berachot 58b). The Shulchan Aruch didn’t rule to recite the blessing over owls, thus no other Rabbi mentioned it. I assume this is because it wasn’t 100% clear exactly which animal the קפוף/kipof refers to. Although according to Tosafot, Chullin 63a, Kipof refers to three different kinds of owls. Perhaps not everyone agreed with him. Owls are special and different, unlike regular birds, the eyes of these nocturnal birds face forward like people’s (Babylonian Talmud, Niddah 23a). 


ספר דברים פרק יד פסוק יא כָּל צִפּוֹר טְהֹרָה תֹּאכֵלוּ: (יב) וְזֶה אֲשֶׁר לֹא תֹאכְלוּ מֵהֶם הַנֶּשֶׁר וְהַפֶּרֶס וְהָעָזְנִיָּה:

(יג) וְהָרָאָה וְאֶת הָאַיָּה וְהַדַּיָּה לְמִינָהּ: (יד) וְאֵת כָּל עֹרֵב לְמִינוֹ: (טו) וְאֵת בַּת הַיַּעֲנָה וְאֶת הַתַּחְמָס וְאֶת הַשָּׁחַף וְאֶת הַנֵּץ לְמִינֵהוּ: (טז) אֶת הַכּוֹס וְאֶת הַיַּנְשׁוּף וְהַתִּנְשָׁמֶת…

“You may eat every clean bird. But these are those from which you shall not eat: The eagle [or the griffin vulture], the ossifrage, the osprey; and the white vulture, and the black vulture, and the kite after its species; And every raven after its species; And the ostrich, and the owl, and the gull, and the hawk after its species; The falcon, and the ibis, and the bat…” (Devarim 14:11-16). 


The owl is one of the 24 prohibited species of birds mentioned in Parashat Re’eh. I once heard that the Torah’s mentioning of the names of all the 24 non-kosher birds proves that the Torah is Divine. It is known that the signs of kosher birds are that they lay eggs that are round like a ball on one side and elongated like an oval on the other, and the egg white surrounds the yolk. Which human being would ever be able to know with absolute certainty the exact list of 24 birds that don’t share this identifying trait of kosher birds?


Praising Hashem for Beautiful Creatures

We saw many amazingly colorful beautiful birds, canaries, and parrots in the zoo, but none of them exchanged a word with us. Nevertheless, if the beauty of any of them evokes a feeling of admiration, another special lesser-known blessing may be recited. This is the blessing for seeing intensely beautiful trees, people, or animals:

בָּרוּךְ אַתָּה הָשֵׁם אֱלֹהֵינוּ מֶלֶךְ הָעוֹלָם שֶׁכָּכָה לוֹ בְּעוֹלָמוֹ:

Baruch Atah Hashem, E-lo-h-einu Melech ha’olam shekacha lo b’olamo.

Blessed are you Hashem our G-d so this is how it is in His world! 


Although Ra’avad holds that the blessing over beautiful animals is recited only once in a lifetime, and his opinion was codified by the Shulchan Aruch (Orach Chayim 225:9), this specifically relates to an animal whose second sighting doesn’t evoke a special sense of amazement. Most Rabbis agree that this blessing can be recited when thirty days or more have passed since the last sighting of a particularly beautiful creature. A visitor to the zoo should recite the blessing ‘shekacha lo b’olamo’ over the first beautiful species he sees and have kavana (intention) to exempt all the other beautiful species with his blessing. This pertains to most people, who are not particularly impressed by all the gorgeous species. But someone greatly moved by seeing them, recites a blessing on each one individually. The blessing ‘so this is how it is in His world!’ conveys that true beauty is the most general expression of creation. It is how harmony and balance of the whole are expressed in a single feature. The appreciation of the totality of creation and its relation to the specific is manifested in beauty where it is not the detail that takes our breath away, but rather the insight into the transcendence of the whole. A sunset, the reflection of light in the waves of water, the graceful leaves in a tree can transport us beyond…. Creation as a whole intrudes on our consciousness, and we are overwhelmed: “So this is how it is in His world!” Beauty implies potential, the expression that lies within all creation (Based on Rabbi Matis Weinberg). Our four-year-old granddaughter was specifically impressed by a shiny turquoise parrot with red breast feathers, and a green back topped off by a shiny orange beak. Her trip to the zoo was certainly both entertaining and educational. 

Gratitude Focus for the Week of Parashat Re’eh –

Some Tips on How to Appreciate Hashem’s Creatures

Perek Shirah, (A Chapter of Song), is an ancient text at least a thousand years old; some commentaries even attribute its authorship to King David! It teaches us that everything in the natural world praises Hashem with one of the verses of the Torah, many of which are Tehillim. If we pay close attention to the sky, the earth, various animals, birds, insects, and plants, we may be able to catch a glimpse of their way of glorifying the Divine and join them in singing Hashem’s praises. Let us learn from Nature to appreciate Hashem’s creation and strengthen our connection with Him! 


  • Pay Close Attention to Hashem’s Creations Around You – Each one has its own way of praising Hashem and teaching us a lesson. “Rabbi Yocḥanan said: Even if the Torah had not been given, we would nonetheless have learned modesty from the cat, [which covers its excrement], and that stealing is objectionable from the ant, [which does not take grain from another ant], and forbidden relations from the dove, which is faithful to its partner, and proper relations from the rooster, which first appeases the hen and then mates with it" (Babylonian Talmud, Eruvin 100b).


  • Study Nature’s Song with Commentaries – Learn about all the deep lessons Hashem in His greatness has imbued within nature. Appreciate the signs he sends us through the phenomenon of nature. If you are feeling drowsy or lazy, go out and pay attention to the ants, and get inspired by how hard and diligently they work. What’s more, they can get incredible jobs done by working together in total unity as a team. Have you ever seen a group of ants moving an object bigger and heavier than hundreds of ants? Only by their dedicated teamwork do they succeed in carrying away a stick needed for their anthill or a yummy cookie for their pantry. 

  • Go to the Zoo and Contemplate the Lessons of Various Animals – What Can We Learn from the Elephant? – The elephant is saying: “How great are your works, G-d, Your thoughts are tremendously deep” (Tehillim 92:6). A little girl in the zoo refused to leave the elephants, “Come let’s go already” pleaded her mother “Haven’t you seen elephants lots of times on TV?”  “Yes” replied the girl “but these are so big!”  The elephant weighs up to seven tons and stands twelve feet tall. For such an enormous creature, elephants are astonishingly agile, capable of balancing on one foot alone.  The elephant is the mightiest beast, and the most intelligent of the large animals, too. Despite all this, it is trainable to be submissive to human beings. The awesome elephant and its submission to human beings, causes us to direct our praise to G-d for creating such amazing creatures “How great are your works, G-d, Your thoughts are tremendously deep!” (Based on Nosson Slifkin, Nature’s Song pp.)

Wednesday, March 20, 2024

How Does the Mincha Offering Teach Us to Cultivate an Attitude of Gratitude?

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Parashat Vayikra 

How Does the Mincha Offering Teach Us to Cultivate an Attitude of Gratitude?




How Can the Torah be Eternal if Animal Sacrifices May Never Return

We have begun the difficult book of Vayikra, most of which is dedicated to describing the various types of sacrifices, many of which seem obscure and irrelevant in our time. There is even a Machloket (disputeabout whether animal sacrifices will be reinstituted when the Temple is rebuilt. Possibly Rav Kook holds that eventually, we will only bring the mincha offering, as written at the end of the Ashkenazi Amidah prayer:

ספר מלאכי פרק ג פסוק ד וְעָרְבָה לַהָשֵׁם מִנְחַת יְהוּדָה וִירוּשָׁלִָם כִּימֵי עוֹלָם וּכְשָׁנִים קַדְמֹנִיּוֹת:

“Then the mincha offerings of Yehudah and Yerushalayim shall be pleasant to Hashem, as in the days of old and former years (Malachi 3:4). 

“In the future, the abundance of knowledge will spread to and penetrate even animals and the sacrifices, which will then be from grain, will be as pleasing to G-d as in days of old in yesteryear [when there were animal sacrifices] (Olat Reiyah, vol. 1, p. 292). If most of the sacrifices were only temporary, how do we reconcile the multitudes of Torah verses describing the details of the various sacrifices with our belief that the entire Torah is eternal? (Rambam, The Thirteen Principles of Emunah, Principle 9). Many greater and wiser people have pondered this question, which is too great for me to fully graspYet, I do believe that all the minutiae of the sacrifices have layers of deeper mystical meanings regarding the inner work of effecting true atonement, which in essence is achieving closeness to Hashem. The word atonement can also be read as, at-one-ment – reflecting the Hebrew word for sacrifice קָרְבַּן/korban – ‘close. Since the offering brings us closer to G-d, its root is קרב /kuf-resh-beit – coming near (R.S.R, Hirsch)Whereas in the past we could come close to Hashem through our holy intention joined with the detailed exterior service of the sacrificewhen the Temple will be rebuilt we will with Hashem’s help undergo a paradigm shift through which we may attain the same spiritual elevation and oneness with Hashem – or perhaps even higher  solely through our holy intention without necessarily needing to go through all rectifications enacted by the actual animal sacrifices. I believe that the inner layer of each of the Torah verses describing the details of the sacrifices will be revealed to pertain to the various steps of the spiritual work necessary to reach such refined soul rectification. Thus, every Torah verse describing the sacrifices is pregnant with an inner meaning pertaining to all eternity.

 

Stepping Into the Journey of Perfecting Our Attribute of Gratitude

Although the details of the spiritual rectification that will take place during the Third Temple Time are still concealed from us, I believe we are called upon to begin to enact the inner work necessary to prepare for the ultimate oneness with Hashem. Its various steps will be revealed according to our level of climbing the spiritual ladder of cleaving to Hashem. Some sacrifices come to atone and cleanse us from wrongdoing, as to be one with Hashem we must eradicate the Amalek within including its various ego elements that act asblocks and barriers from attaining oneness with Hashem. Other sacrifices are expressions of gratitude, which include innumerable levels to be developedIt is vital to begin the journey of perfecting the attribute of gratitude, especially in our time of ingratitude with its pitfalls of taking our blessings for granted. Now is the time to practice gratitude, reverence, and gift-giving, which are powerful tools for expressing our deepest feelings for everything we have and are. It is well known that since the destruction of the Temple, our prayers have become the substitute for sacrifices as it states “…May You forgive all iniquity and accept good, and let our lips substitute for bulls [i.e., let our prayers substitute for sacrifices] (Hoshea 14:3-4)Yisrael said, Master of the Universe, when the Beit Hamikdash stood, we would offer sacrifices and be atoned for. Now we have only prayer” (Midrash Bamidbar Rabbah 18:17). Our prayer book is replete with sentiments of gratitude to Hashem – the ultimate source of our existence. It takes deep spiritual work to tune into this, rather than just paying external lip service. It is truly a meditative challenge to rise every single morning, and not only recite Modeh AniI am grateful to G-d but to sincerely feel gratitude in the deepest recesses of our hearts for bringing life to us every single day. When we thank G-d for sustaining the world with goodness iBirkat HaMazon(Grace after Meals) we have the opportunity to tap into immeasurable gratitude for Hashem’s kindness, and mercy through which He sustains usNo matter how hard we work to put a meal on the table, we are challenged to recall that at the end of the day, everything we have, and our entire life is only by Divine grace. When we recite Modim Anachnu Lach, (We are grateful to You) in the daily Amidah prayer let us infuse our words as we bow deeply to Hashem to tune into the words we are reciting and truly thank G-for our souls, which are in Your keeping; for the signs of Your presence we encounter every day; and for Your wondrous gifts at all time.”

 

The Mincha Offering Reflecting the Ultimate Purpose of Sacrifices Eliminating Pride

ספר ויקרא פרק ב פסוק א וְנֶפֶשׁ כִּי תַקְרִיב קָרְבַּן מִנְחָה לַהָשֵׁם סֹלֶת יִהְיֶה קָרְבָּנוֹ וְיָצַק עָלֶיהָ שֶׁמֶן וְנָתַן עָלֶיהָ לְבֹנָה:

“If a נֶפֶשׁ/nefesh – soul brings a meal offering to Hashem, his offering shall be of fine flour. He shall pour oil over it and place frankincense upon it” (Vayikra 2:1).

          

The Torah uses the word נֶפֶשׁ/nefesh – soul regarding the mincha meal offering. This expression isn’t used for any of the other voluntary sacrifices. Now, who usually donates a meal offering? A poor person [because flour is less expensive than birds or animals]. [Hence,] the Holy One Blessed is He, says: “I account if for him as if he has sacrificed his very soul!”- [BT, Menachot 104b]; (Rashi, Vayikra 2:1). The pauper is considered as having offered his nefesh – his entire being – to the Almighty, due to the difficulty his offering entails. Although a person of average means who offers a bull as a sacrifice could incur an expense proportionally equivalent to that of a poor person bringing a mincha, the difference between the two lies in their feelings of pride in their offering. Whenever we do something exceptional in public, our altruism is compromised, if only very slightly, by the admiration we receive. When people see us bring a large, respectable voluntary offering, it is hard to avoid feeling a degree of pride or at least a slight tinge of gratification over the respect we earn among peers and onlookers. Thus, even an idealistically driven offering may be less than perfectly sincere, given the justifiable pride that we may feel. Conversely, the pauper may feel embarrassed as he makes his way to the Mikdash with a meager sacrifice of oil and grain, and he needs to muster courage and resolve to overcome these feelings and proceed with his offering. Perhaps this is why the pauper’s mincha offering is considered as if he sacrificed his nefeshHashem cares about the level of sincerity rather than the value of the sacrifice itself. The pauper’s mincha offering is pure and genuine, devoid of any ulterior motiveaccompanying the larger sacrifices. The pauper gains no social benefit or admirationbut brings his offering with pure, untainted sincerityFeelings of pride undermine the sacrifice’s very purpose, as it is meant to express keen awareness that we can get closer to Hashem, and a sincere desire to disintegrate the barrier of pride and self-importance that block us from completely cleaving to Hashem.  (The Beit Yisrael (Rav Yisrael Alter, the fourth Rebbe of Ger).

 

Cultivate an Attitude of Gratitude Even During Times of Hardship

The Chatam Sofer asks why the pauper didn’t choose to offer the sacrifice of a small bird – a dove or pigeon – which likely would have been the least expensive offering. The mincha offering included a sizeable portion of flour, as well as olive oil and frankincense, which all together likely cost more than a small bird. Then why does the Talmud cited by Rashi assume that the poor would offer mincha sacrifices rather than bird sacrifices? Chatam Sofesuggests that the Talmud refers to a pauper who does not even have money for his basic necessities and relies upon charity for his sustenance. His only access to food is agricultural gifts such as leket, shichechaand pe’a – the portions of the fields that the owners are required to leave for the needy. As this is the pauper’s sole source of sustenance, his only option for offering a sacrifice is a mincha, which he brings from the grain that he collected from what the landowners left for the poor. Since he does not have money to purchase a bird, the only sacrifice he can offer is a mincha. For this reason, the pauper is considered as having sacrificed his soul to G-d, as he takes a portion of his meager eating rations, to offer a sacrifice to the Almighty. Generally, people enduring difficult challenges are too embittered and distraught to recognize and feel grateful for the good things in their lives to make altruistic sacrifices. If a beggar – who is forced to collect the gleanings of other people’s crops to survive – still feels moved and inspired to offer a portion of what he has to Hashem as an expression of his devotion, then how much more reason do we have to feel grateful for our blessings even in times of hardship. When the pauper allocates a portion of the grain he received through charity for a sacrifice, he shows gratitude for what he has receivedThis should inspire us to recognize and appreciate our blessings even if they at first seem meager, and to cultivate an attitude of gratitude for what we have even during times of hardship (Rav David SilverbergParashat VayikraThe Israel Koschitzky VBM, Torat Har Etzion, SALT 2018).

 

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Gratitude Focus for the Week of Parashat Vayikra –

Some Tips for Cultivating Gratitude During Hardships

Its easy to feel grateful when life is good, but when disaster strikes, gratitude is worth the effort (Robert EmmonsGratitude Works)Research on gratitude has shown me that when life is going well, gratitude allows us to celebrate and magnify goodness. But what about when life goes badly? Amid the war in Israelhow do we feel grateful under such dire circumstances? Although gratitude doesn’t come easily or naturally in times of crisis, it is precisely under crisis conditions that we have the most to gain from a grateful perspective on life. An attitude of gratitude can help us cope with hard times. In the face of demoralization, gratitude has the power to energize. In the face of brokenness, gratitude has the power to heal. In the face of despair, gratitude has the power to bring hope. 

• Remember the Hardships – Trials and suffering can actually refine and deepen gratefulness if we allow them to show us not to take things for granted. During the good times, people may take their blessings for granted and believe that they are invulnerable. In times of uncertainty, though, we realize how powerless weare to control our own destiny. If you begin to see that everything you have, everything you have counted on, may be taken away, it becomes much harder to take it for granted.

 

• Think about How Far You Have Come – No matter how you’re feeling about life you can practice gratitude by asking yourself some basic questions:

What have I received from ____?

What have I given to ______?

What troubles and difficulties have I overcome? 

The last question forces you to remember the hard times and reflect on them. Think about how far you’ve come. The contrast between good and bad sets you up for finding gratefulness during difficult times.

 

• Develop Gratitude During Grief – If you’re, G-d forbid, dealing with an unimaginable loss of a family member, a chronic or life-threatening disease, divorce, unemployment, or depression, it’s likely difficult to find something that’s positive in your life. However, if you search with strong intent, you will find at least one blessing or kindness on which you can focus. By allowing yourself to turn to gratitude, you can find hope amid despair.

 

• Recall the Good Times – Reflect on your life when you felt a deep sense of gratitude, then write about it in your gratitude journal. You may focus on more than just one event and write about numerous moments of gratitude. Focus on the gratitude takeaways, even if you’re facing a challenging time or circumstance. Out of something terrible – an ailment or adversity – came something good, like a new opportunity or new perspective on life.

 

• Help Those Less Fortunate Than Yourself – Showing kindness to people in greater distress than yourself distracts you from your own hardships and causes you to feel gratitude for your blessings which may seem greater in comparison to those less fortunate. The Talmud tells the story of Rabbi Akiva and his holy wife Rachel, the daughter of the wealthy Kalba Shavua, who disowned her when she betrothed herself to Rabbi Akiva. It was during the winter, but they only had straw to sleep on, and Rabbi Akiva had to pick out the straw from his hair. If only I could afford it, said he to her, I would present you with a golden Jerusalem.  Later Eliyahu came to them in the guise of a pauper and cried out at the door. Give me some straw, for my wife gave birth and I have nothing for her to lie on. See!’ Rabbi Akiva observed to his wife, “There is a man who lacks even straw (Babylonian Talmud Nedarim 50a).